Showing posts with label friendship. Show all posts
Showing posts with label friendship. Show all posts

Wednesday, April 15, 2009

What I learned this year - or the various adventures of Apartment 4

This morning I wrote my (hopefully) last exam of my undergraduate degree.

As the year comes to an end, I've decided to make a list of the things I've learnt over the course of this year. Here goes:
  1. Even (or especially) when procrastinating, living with your friends is hella fun.
  2. Try as she might, Kristen will never learn how to teleport us to school.
  3. What happens in the edit suites stays in the edit suites - true friendship is surviving being stuck in a small cubicle with a temperamental computer and a tight deadline.
  4. Powdered donuts can get me through anything.
  5. Wednesday nights are fierce. ANTM and girls night.
  6. Hummus should not be used in the bedroom.
  7. That night in San Quinn was unforgettable.
  8. If you make a giant vat of chili on the weekend, you have food all week!
  9. How to push myself to max sushi capacity. Also, how to make sushi.
  10. M&M brownies in a box are the best kind of brownies, in a box.
  11. There are few problems that can't be solved by Hagen Daas.
  12. It's very hard to fashion an erect penis on a sugar cookie man with just icing.
  13. Journalism sucks. Wait, I already knew that. This year I learned that certain things, like docs and fun archaeology articles aren't so bad.
  14. Testes? Testicles? It's interchangeable.
  15. Everyone should have an slogan. Like Kristen, Canada's Open Person.
  16. How to dance like no one's watching.
  17. You can eat grilled cheese three to four days a week, two meals a day.
  18. Every day is a Tea Party.
  19. Science isn't as scary as I thought.
  20. It's very difficult to walk down four flights of stairs in heels when drunk.
  21. It is possible to live for a year with only three walls.
  22. I look damn hot in a grad cap, unlike the majority of people. Unfortunately, without the hat I look like a smirking fool holding fake flowers.
  23. Museums are awesome.
  24. How to make egg salad. And heart shaped scones. And a million cookies.
  25. I have the best friends in the world, and I owe the survival of this year and the three before that to them.
And now.... what four BJ students are really good for....

Sunday, April 12, 2009

My life, the cast of characters

I talk a lot about my friends and how much they mean to me, but I sort of mention them in abstract ways. This is a post dedicated to the cast of colourful characters that make my life bearable. Hopefully they'll all forgive me for posting their pictures.

The best friend. My Faebala/Fae/Faerie/Elphaba/Sar/Sari is unquestionably my favourite person. She's my other half. We've been best friends for almost nine years, despite living 8 hours away from each other. We see each other two or three times a year. We have been there for each other through the hardest and happiest times of each other's lives. We're writing a book together. We've traveled together, to Ireland, London and New York City. We dreamed of living in London together - and still dream that someday it will work out. In short, Fae is so important to me that she's the only person to have her own tag on my blog, and is also one of my most commonly used tags. We also have matching tattoos, which we got together the week of Feb 15 (significant to us because of the Bright Eyes song) last year.

The roommates. The exploits of Apartment 4 are nothing short of legendary. I met Kristen when I was waking up at 4am every morning to do media monitoring in second year. We bonded over our mutual hatred of life at that hour of the day. We went out for breakfast a lot, where Kristen would make fun of me for getting nutella all over my face. (Kristen SEEMS like a nice person but she mocks you mercilessly!) I went over to her place for her birthday that year, where I was introduced to her roommates and the idea of the Vortex. This led to me, at the age of 20, throwing up from drinking for the first time... and second time. I went to Ireland that summer, and Kristen came to visit. She and Taylor moved into the same building, different apartment the next year. I spent almost every Saturday night (and often other nights...) on their futon. Exploits and adventures were had, notably of the drunken and journalism varities. This September, I moved in with them into a wonderful half room in the living room that we lovingly call the alcove. Many nights of boogling, cards, drinking, cooking, stressing and procrastinating were had.

The person I've known longest. I've known Kaitlyn since I was two years old. Really, we're more like sisters than just friends. I don't think there's anyone in the world who knows me quite like Kaitlyn. When I was a member of Journalists for Human Rights, I took a 24 hour vow of silence. During this time, I needed to eat... Well, Kaitlyn could order for me. Then we hung out. And somehow, her and I had an entire conversation without me speaking. It's really quite astounding. And we always laugh that our families are like each other's second families. We also share an incredible love of chocolate.

The neighbour. I've know Jes almost as long as I've know Kaitlyn. We've been friends since about 4 or 5. She lives just down the street from my parents house. We walked to school together everyday for... probably almost 10 years. During those years we talked about everything. Interestingly enough, Jes and I ended up in the same program at Carleton, and we've since struggled through four years of j-school together and produced a really awesome doc.

The sister. My sister and I are really close. We have tea together at our favourite cafe, The Tea Party, almost every week. My sister has always been that person who really broadens my horizons. She teaches me so much, and I really look up to her. Even if she's shorter than me. I really admire her, too, for finding something she really loves and having the courage to pursue it.

The Chris. The Chris, who used the word "the" infront of everything. The almost roommate, who comes over for dinner every week. Who eats fried chicken with me. Who amuses me endlessly with her stories, even when they're about nothing at all ("and then I didn't get into the class!"). Who inspired my love of blogging, and of chicken caesar wraps. Chris always makes me smile.

My Galway Girls. My summer in Ireland was probably the best time of my life so far. Those four months were more full of laughter, drink, tears, first times, last times and craic than any other time. And in the process I met my wife (at least on Facebook), Lain, and my Steph. Lain and I lived together, Steph and I watched Sex and the City together. They were months full of money woes, horrible jobs and rain... but also bicycle rides, weekend trips, concerts, dancing and talking for hours. I'll never forget my Galway Girls, just like I'll never forget Galway. I can only hope that some day, we'll all be in the same place again. We have a five year reunion tentatively planned for The Puck Fair in 2012.

The family. I am incredibly lucky to have a really wonderful family. Also, to generally get along with my family, which is a plus. I love my parents, I still miss them when I go away. And more than that, I'm really proud of them as people, not just as my parents. Then there's my kitten, who I adore. And my extended family, my grandparents, my cousins, my aunt and uncle. It makes me so happy to know that so many people love me and are looking out for me!

The lovable extras. Include my close group of high school friends, various school friends and awesome people who I should probably know better but sadly don't. And you, because if you're reading this blog you are also awesome.

Friday, April 10, 2009

Brownie fail

I have some really awesome friends who have been trying to cheer me up this week. Kaitlyn is one of them, and she made me brownies.

We're calling it a Brownie Fail because it doesn't seem to have cooked through... but I have to say - it's very tasty. Yum.

There are very few things that brownies can't cure. I love my friends.

Tuesday, December 30, 2008

Distance and the space between...

I've been thinking a lot recently about the plan that Fae and I had to move to London in September. We've been talking about it a lot too, about how we're disappointed it's not going to work. Ever since she was here last week, I keep thinking how unfair it is to have lived 12 hours away (at the closest) from my best friend for the last 8 or 9 years. It's hard, because both our lives are going in very different directions, and we both have a lot of dreams for our futures.

Anyway, I love my Faerie and I miss her and I wanted to share with you the post she wrote yesterday, based on a book she's reading. It describes us pretty well.

http://konfusedfae.blogspot.com/2008/12/friend-who-made-me-laugh-who-made-me.html

Btw, Fae, I'm trying to avoid the letter u because I'm on the laptop downstairs.. I love ewe!